I have been a member here for quite a while, and have benefitted a lot from the advice that I have read, so thought I would get some more!
For background, I don't BF girls much anymore except for my first nite in PI - the DIA route with 4-6 steady's over 2-3 weeks is more relaxing for me, and I get to do what ever I want with them since they are comfortable and willing. However, as several mongers here have noted previously, the Filipina mind is automatically geared towards possessiveness and jealousy. As such, when ever I have raised the topic of a 3-sum, all of my steady's have said "Hell, NO!".
When the topic of additional male partners came up, the common response was that "I don't want to see you with other women, so how could you stand to see me with other men"!
Hence my question: Have you been able to convince a steady girl in Phils to take part in a 3-sum or an orgy (either multiple guys or multiple women)? If yes, what worked? Additionally, what did not work? Looking for ideas, suggestions... and willing to try most of them. BTW, I am not interested in 3-sum's with BF's - been there, done that... It's more interesting to me to do it with my steady's, all of whom will do almost everything, except for multiple partners.