So, I am fairly new to dating filipina girls and with filipino culture in general. In 2003 I traveled to the Philippines with my dad's church on a mission trip (I know what you are thinking but let me continue). I spent nine amazing days in a couple villages in northern Mindanao. My father and his church group went home and me and my best friend had two days to explore and have some fun. We decided to stick to Manila and my friend was very religious but I wanted to get into some trouble. He spent most nights hiding in the Hotel room while I went and explored a few bars in Makati. I was only 19 at the time and I was not inexperienced but what I discovered really blew my mind and changed my whole way of thinking. I only paid for one girl but I had wonderful experiences with four girls while on my trip. My addiction to Pinay girls began there and it would never leave me.
When I returned home I looked for pinay girls but very hard to find. I dated one mixed girl but wasn't the same. I dated Chinese, Korean and several Vietnamese girls....not the same. So I settled on a girl. She was a South Louisiana girl with that dark skin and dark hair. She was very petite and built similar to pinay hotties. This would do for me. We met in New Orleans when I was working security at Rick's Cabaret and she was a dancer. I have always been attracted to naughty girls and I like the excitement. Well after only two years of marriage I was running for the hills. She decided to get ultra religious to the point that BJ's were disrespectful to her and she would even let me eat her muff.
Fast forward a couple years....I decided to give internet dating a shot to meet a pinay girl. I had a co-worker who met his wife on a site and they have a great marriage and have been married for four years now. I am not just looking for fun because I am at the stage of my life where I want to have children. I am 31 and I have no kids but I really want a bugger or two running around (call me crazy). I have heard good things about filpina girls as moms, so I figured if it doesn't work out she will at least be a good mother to our children. I wasn't really looking for anything specific but I talked to over 300 girls over a one year period and then I found her. I was hooked the first time we talked on cam....She is 28 so we are close in age. There were a few red flags at first....She has been very honest and I have hired a PI to check up on some things. She had a filipino bf when we first started talking. She let me know about him right away. She is a former BG and spent some time working in the infamous 'four floors of naughty girls' in Singapore. She has been free of the PFP scene for two years now and every thing seems to check out. This girl is absolutely amazing and I have fallen madly in love (I don't let her know that...)
After six months of chatting online I made my first trip back to Phil since 2003 to meet my wonderful girl. She met me at the airport and we had an amazing time. I rented us a condo because I wanted to get a glimpse of what life might be like if we lived together. She treated me like a king. She is an amazing cook. She cooked pansit, pork adobo and few other filipino dishes. She had a british bf for a while and asked me to cook omelettes for her and I cooked a few other dishes from my region of the US. I won't get into too many details but the sex was more than amazing and I am really hooked. I bought her a ring while I was there and asked her to marry me on top of Taal Volcano after a great trek.
I know its taken me a long time to get here but here goes......She was very conservative and wouldn't really discuss sex too much before we met but we have opened up about some things after I got home. I told her I have never had a proper threesome with two girls and it's on my bucket list. She isn't bi and is not interested on fooling around with another girl but she said on my next trip she will go to the bar for me and pick out two girls and let me have my fun but she has to watch.....I couldn't believe what I was hearing!!!!! I have always dated naughty girls in the US but have never been offered this...especially from my finance. Is this a test???? Should I say no or yes???? Did I just find an amazing girl???? She did mention that she trusts me and as long as I don't get feelings for the girls and as long as they respect her she can share me.....What???? I told her I couldn't do the same as I am way to jealous for that....I am not a swinger!! What should I do???? Is this common for ex-BG's???? Please I need advice as I am planning my next trip back to Phil in less than two months.
Thanks!
Lucky Bastard